Seven Keys to Rewarding Relationships INTRODUCTION: After being married 36 years to my soulmate, we have learned a few keys to live out Shalom in our relationship. This was not the case for all our marriage, especially the first five to ten years, where we were locked in power-struggles, needing to prove ourselves right and the other wrong. It was an either me or you situation. Many times, we were enemies of one another. At one point, I yelled at him, “One of us must die for this marriage to end. It could be me or you, either one would do!” We spent (wasted) hours and days on end, trying to prove why, and “process” interactions we found hurtful. We laugh now, but back then, it truly felt critical to us, as if our lives depended on it. This is not limited to marital or familial relationships. We can apply these concepts to all relationships. Key # 1: Do Not Take Offense – Extend Grace Instead When the other person says or does something that we find offensive, we can either take on...
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