Tips on Life in Small Bites

 Expectations Toward Our Spouse  As we do life we find that  We don't have much control over our life What happens to us What circumstances we find ourself in Many things are outside of our control However We do have control over Our expectations toward ourselves Our expectations toward others Our expectations toward life Our expectations toward God Since we cannot control Others or God We can exert our control over ourselves Our expectations Before we got married We thought we were marrying an orange Thick-skinned and juicy After we got married We found out that we actually married an apple Thin-skinned and crispy We have a choice here We can bemoan that we didn't get  the orange we expected a nd feel  Angry Sad Disappointed Cheated Fooled Disillusioned Bitter Resentful And accuse our spouse of having baited and switch on us Giving them the message that they are inadequate Making them feel discouraged and defeated Even giving up on trying to become  A bett...